Yesterday we had lots of fun in the sun...which is rare around here lately due to all the rain we've been getting! The family got together for a picnic...food, fun and pool time! It was lots of fun - as it always is getting together with them!!! Since the death of my Dad, it even means more to me than it used to...family is precious, and I value every minute with them.
It actually was quite hot outside, but it was nice and breezy under the tent in the shade. Edward is in the yellow t-shirt on the right.
Sweet-Pea playing with her 2 cousins from Wyoming.
My cousin from WY and Lionel, enjoying the pool.
Sweet-Pea in the pool...she's part fish! = )
Lionel, lost in a pile of tubes. I think there were 5 or 6 piled up.
Sweet-Pea
Farmer Sweet-Pea...headed out to plow the fields behind her. =)
Lionel, Sweet-Pea and their 2 cousins.
Just havin' a bit of fun with my macro...these flowers are gorgeous aren't they!?!
This pretty Monarch butterfly was perched on the bush just waiting for me to snap a photo.
Lionel, captured in a more serious pose...I love this photo of him.
Sweet-Pea playing a game with grace and beauty...all due to years of ballet lessons. =)
Well, now that we've had our day of rest and relaxation, it's time to WORK! We move in just 2 days!!!!!!!!!!!!! The house is packed except for a few last minute things. Cody heads for the doggie spa tomorrow morning, and then we wait patiently for the big huge truck to come and pick up our 'stuff' on Tuesday morning. We've already begun to say good-bye to our neighbors, and our list of to-do's is getting smaller. Yaay!!!
I probably won't be able to post for a few days now. Lord willing, the next time I'm on here, there will be photos of the move and news that we're settling in.
Sunday, June 28, 2009
Fun with the family!
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Tuesday, June 23, 2009
Only 1 more week!!!
Can we get through this next week without getting too excited? Probably not. One week from today we'll be moving out, handing over the keys to our old home and signing the papers on our new home! We can't wait!!
I haven't been able to sleep much these days, partly because our mattresses are on the floor due to us taking our bed apart, and partly because my mind keeps racing...thinking of what needs to happen before we move. It's not easy moving...I honestly don't know how people do this often. I know some families who have moved 10 or 11 times. No thank you, not me!! I want to move once more after this...out to Colorado, then I'm done moving!! If my family wants to move again after that, they can move without me! ha ha (OK, maybe not, but they can do all the packing!)
I'm more worried about how Cody will adjust to his new surroundings. He will be at the Doggie Spa for a few days (nah, he's not pampered), but when he gets home, it'll be at the new house, not the one he knows. He's never been there, so it will be quite the surprise. He must know SOMETHING is going on, our house never looked so awful...boxes all over, furniture taken apart, window coverings down, things off the walls. He probably just thinks we don't know how to decorate. Silly dog!
We're headed out shopping again today. We purchased our curtains the other day. I'm not saying what we got, I'll just post photos once we move and they're up. If you don't like them, I don't want to know...we spent WAY too much money on them and my husband won't be pleased. ha ha They are pretty though and I think they'll match the furniture beautifully. We'll see.
It's amazing all the little 'stuff' you need when buying a new home though. Curtains, curtain rods, shades, all new shelf paper, garbage cans (inside and out since ours aren't worth moving), light bulbs, shower curtains, groceries (since we can't really take most of the cold stuff with us), cleaning supplies etc. I'm not complaining though, I LOVE to shop. =) It's just amazing how much we need to get to make our house a home. Having to leave certain things behind that we know we'll need to buy again isn't easy to do....curtain rods, certain light fixtures, bathroom accessories etc. Things that are attached to the home that we can't take. The new owners will probably not even use what's here, but we still can't take 'em. Go figure.
Well, I need to go make my list...we're heading out soon! Have a great day.
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Sunday, June 21, 2009
Happy Father's Day
This is the first Father's Day without my Dad. It stinks, but knowing that he's been reunited with my Mom and especially with our heavenly Father, makes it easier to accept. I really miss him a lot and have been thinking about him lately more than ever. He was a special man who touched so many people in such a wonderful way!
Lionel, Sweet-Pea and PaPa
...And my dear husband...thanks for being such a wonderful daddy to our children. I love to see you interact with them...you know when to be a kid again, and when to be a father. You have such a fun playful side to you when you're around them which I love. Not many Dads know how to do that. Also, continue to be that strong shining example they need, to grow and mature into a Godly man and woman.
Daddy and Lionel
Daddy and Sweet-Pea
This is an old photo, but it shows the 'silly' side of Daddy, don'cha think!?!
Another great 'Dad' is my father-in-law. (A.K.A. my father-in-love) He has always been there for us and is a great help in so many ways to us and to our children. My prayer for him is that he comes to know Christ in a personal way.
Grandpa and Lionel
Happy Father's Day!!!!
With love,
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Friday, June 19, 2009
The Countdown Continues...
Packing has been part of our daily routine. Yesterday we completed Sweet-Pea's room. She now only has an empty dresser, an empty book shelf, the horse barn she likes to play with, and her mattress...which is on the floor. It's pretty empty around here these days!!
Here she is, helping to take her bed apart. She was a big help and actually thought it was exciting to pack up everything in her room.
She'll miss the ballet bar and mirror we put up, but it just means we'll have to be as creative in our new home.
Look what FINALLY got added to our 'For Sale' sign!!!! We have been waiting and waiting to see this sign hanging outside, but it never appeared. Today, Edward came home from work and said to me "Why didn't you call me to say it was up???" I said "What was up?" and then he pointed outside. I practically screamed with excitement. It's SO REAL now!!!!! God is good!
Of course, being the avid (yet amateur) photographer that I am, I had to take a gazillion photos of the sign in front of the house. This is one of my favorites...
Now that we'll be moving...we are thinking about what needs to be done at the new home. First order of business....a mailbox! Yup...gotta make room for those bills that will be pouring in once we move in!!!
Here's Lionel and Edward getting ready to put the pole in the ground.
Edward's Dad came over to help us. He's very good at this sort of thing, plus he loves doing it!
Checking to see if things are level. Perfection at it's best!
Done! Now it looks like someone lives there....well, almost!
Only 11 days!!!

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Wednesday, June 17, 2009
Wildlife...too close for comfort!
Well, it's a good thing we're moving!!! Check out what just moved into our yard and under our shed....


Yup, they're adorable, but they're still SKUNKS!!!
They must have been born recently. We only noticed them 2 days ago. One was wandering around the back yard around the pool area. He seemed to be lost. All of a sudden, 4 more popped their heads out from under the shed and made noises as if to call the lost one home.
That was yesterday.
Today they started all coming out and walking around our yard!!!! It's a bit creepy. During the day it's not a problem to walk Cody (our dog) because we can see them (even though they're quite small), but at night...LOOK OUT! I just hope none of us get sprayed. Yuk!
Only 13 days until we move...let's hope the new owners find their 'neighbors' very friendly! What a welcoming committee they have, huh? =)
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Sunday, June 14, 2009
Opinions wanted...
We went over to the new house today. I can't even begin to tell you how excited I was to be there knowing it was going to be our home in just 16 days! Did you hear me? 16 days!!!!! Yahoo!!!! I'm sorry, I'm just a tiny bit really excited about it.
I'm not the best decorator in town, but I'm not the worst either...yet I would love your opinion on something. Here goes:
Here is a photo of our living room...
Here's a photo of what it will probably look like once we paint a darker shade of brown on the fireplace wall...
It's very pretty, but the windows on that wall aren't easy to work with. They are pretty tall, and yet they're at the shorter end of the room. The ceiling is 9' where the windows are, and it goes up to the top of the 2nd floor as it comes towards the front of the photo. (It's a saltbox style home, higher in the front, shorter in the back.) I need advice on what style curtains to put there. I could use just a valance, yet it would most likely look pretty sparse. I could use tiered swags on either side, but again, not sure how it would look. My thoughts were to just use tailored curtains on either side. I'm not a huge fan of plain 'ole curtains, but I think it would actually look pretty on these tall windows.
So, I had a bit of fun playing around on the computer with the living room photo tonight. Below are 2 photos I came up with. Believe me, I know the details aren't great, but I did it quickly, so I apologize for the not-very-professional photos...the Thomas Kinkade picture isn't at the right angle and the curtains are all funny, but it's just to get an idea of what it'll look like. We are going to hang our Thomas Kinkade picture over the fireplace and put candle wall sconces up, but they will be straight and of the proper scale. =)
Image #1:
Image #2:
This is what our sofas look like...they're a sage green.
So, do you like either of them? Do you think the plaid is better? Plain is better? Neither? Got a different idea for me? I look forward to your responses...thanks for your .02 cents. Every opinion counts and I'm just not sure of what will look the best. Thanks!!!
P.S. The curtains will go down to the floor most likely...I just didn't do it that way in the photo...for whatever reason. =)
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Friday, June 12, 2009
It's a done deal!!!
Well, today we got word that our home is 'officially' sold. All parties involved in making this purchase happen have gotten their mortgage approval letters, and are set to go! Now all we have left is to finish packing and have our closings. Yahoo!!
God is good...He not only has taught us so much through this process, He has clearly shown us why we had to wait on His timing. All along we kept questioning 'why'. Why would God allow the first sale not to go through? Why would God cause us to lose the home we originally wanted to purchase? Why is God making us wait? Why? Why? Why?
The answers are simple...something which my 'oh-so-little' brain couldn't figure out (or handle) months ago. When going through difficult times, it's always good to let go and let God lead. It's NOT easy, but it ALWAYS pays off. There is always a reason, and many times we don't know what that reason is, but in our case, we know!
If we had sold our home that first time around earlier on in February/March, these things wouldn't have happened:
- We wouldn't have be-friended the couple who are buying our home from us. We never would have known how sweet they are, and how excited they are to be moving into this house. We never would have been able to answer the many questions they wanted answers to...ones you generally don't get answered when buying a home. We wouldn't have been able to take some of the things in the house that we really wanted, yet should've been sold with the home...things they don't mind us taking.
- We wouldn't have purchased the house we were meant to have. What we are buying is actually so much better than the first home we had a deposit on. We didn't think there was a better home for us, but God knew better! The new home has more rooms than the first home. The new home is a 'green', energy efficient home which will save us a TON of money each month. The new home is further down the cul-de-sac than the first home which is safer for the kids. The new home has an alarm system, a bigger deck, a nicer yard and the inside is unbelievably nicer than the first!!! God totally knew what was better. The same month we listed our current home on the market was the same month they broke ground for the home we're buying. It's a God thing! We just needed to wait until it was completed. We didn't know that though, but God did.
- The most important thing we wouldn't have done, was start a relationship with one of our current neighbors. This neighbor has lived near us for 12 years, but we never ever talked. I began talking with her only days after the first sale of our home fell through and was able to share Christ with her right then and there. We have talked numerous times since then, and she is excited to learn more. I gave her a new Bible and a couple other items to help get her started. She has a long way to go, but she's definitely searching and had we been able to move, this relationship would have never happened. I am hopeful that we will continue this new found relationship once we move....we'll only be a 15 min. drive away. Please pray for her. She just went through a messy divorce. She was abused in her marriage and she is worried about the outcome of her teenage son. Praise the Lord for keeping us here long enough to befriend this sweet woman and share the love of Christ with her!!
We are moving in only 18 days!!
Is it time to panic yet? We've got lots of packing left to do!!
Here are a few more photos of our new home:
The foyer...



The family room. Anyone have ideas on how to dress these very tall windows?? We want privacy at night, but light during the day. I'm not a huge fan of 'drapes', so it's a challenge.

Closer view of the windows...

View of the kitchen from the family room...

The beautiful kitchen...appliances are in now, but we don't have photos of them yet.


The craftsmanship in this home is beautiful. There's lots of crown molding in the foyer and dining room, and in the kitchen all the doors have crown molding...it's very pretty. You can see a tiny part of it above the pantry on the left just beyond the cabinets.

Dining room...

View of school room from the dining room...

School room...a bit smaller than the one in our current home, but it's still a school room which we're privileged to have. Not all homeschoolers have a separate room to school in.


So, there you have it, our new home. We're very excited and feel so blessed to be moving here. This is a transition home for us though. We're hoping to move to Colorado sometime soon after Lionel graduates high school...in God's perfect time though!!!
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Thursday, June 11, 2009
Our Curriculum for 2009-2010
It's that time of year again...time to purchase our curriculum for the fall. I am so excited this year...changes are definitely coming!! We have had quite a difficult year and I am ready move on. Don't get me wrong, it was quite a learning experience, but we had many challenges and so much was sacrificed. Taking care of Dad was one of the hardest and yet rewarding things I've ever done (aside from parenting), but he is now peacefully with the Lord, so we can concentrate on our own family.
Since we're moving, we need to pack up our school work and figure out where we stand for the new year. Unfortunately we will have to continue with school through a good chunk of July, but once August hits, we will start the new year, ready or not. Lionel will be in 10th grade and Sweet-Pea will be in 3rd. I can't believe it...we are exactly half way through our homeschooling years. We've done 10 years (with Lionel), and we have 10 left (for Sweet-Pea). I never ever thought I'd be 'in' school for so many years!! ha ha I went to school for 18 years myself, and if you add homeschooling to it, I'll have been in school 38 years total!!! Wow!! How come I don't feel that smart though?!?
That being said...below are our curriculum choices for August. Some choices are simply a continuation of what we used this past year, but others are different. We all enjoy changes now and then, it keeps things fresh and makes learning so much fun. This year should be a total blast with the kids!!! I can't wait to move, unpack, settle in our new home, and then begin a new school year! Summer? Forget it...we've had plenty of days off already! =)
Here goes:
GEOGRAPHY:
This year Lionel won't be doing any formal geography. He's had his share of it in past years...US Geography, World Geography, Bible Geography etc. This year he gets a break! Sweet-Pea will be doing US Geography using none other than Geomatters...our favorite geography curriculum. What's even better is that I didn't have to purchase anything for her since we have all the books.


MATH:
Sweet-Pea will be once again using Horizons for Math. She did Horizons grade 2 last year and really enjoyed it. She likes the colorful books and Edward (who teaches the kids' math) enjoys the way it's taught. Lionel will be working on Geometry this year. He's looking forward to a break from Algebra! I love watching Edward teach the kids, it's a great time of bonding for them and it helps Daddy really get involved in our homeschooling. That's huge!

HISTORY:
History is my absolute favorite subject to teach and to learn about!! It is constant, yet as a result the present is affected and changed because of the past...how exciting! I love learning right along with the kids. This year will be much different from last year. Sweet-Pea won't be doing a formal 'history' as we know it. Instead, she will be using Beautiful Feet for their 'Teaching Character' literature pack. This will not only instill a love of reading in her, it will teach her all about Godly character. We're excited to begin! Lionel will not be using Beautiful Feet as we have in the past. It was a very difficult decision for us since we love that curriculum so much, but he has not developed into the seasoned reader that we envisioned, so he needs something different. This year he will be using Bob Jones for World History. These books look fantastic, and we are happy to try something new. It looks like something he will thrive on, and we are confident that he will learn history with a solid Biblical foundation this way. That's what matters.

SCIENCE:
We haven't finished our entire science curriculum this year, but fortunately most of what they learned was more than what the school systems end up teaching. Sweet-Pea learned a LOT about our universe through the Exploring Creation with Astronomy. This year we are moving on to Exploring Creation with Botany though. I'm SO excited!! We will be learning a lot about plants, trees, flowers etc. She's been excited about planing a garden in our new backyard, so that will help with some of the hands-on learning this year. Lionel's biology has been a challenge to keep up with. We need to complete it before moving on to his Chemistry class, but hopefully it'll be sometime this fall. I can't wait for Chemistry - it was one of my favorite science classes in high school. Yaay! We purchased the books along with the multimedia CD and also the very cool lab kit...so we get to use bunsen burners, beakers, test tubes and chemicals this year!! Hmm, I hope we have enough insurance on our new home to cover any accidents. =)

WRITING/ENGLISH:
This is my downfall. I do not like writing! I LOVE to read books, especially classics, but I cannot write for the life of me. Fortunately though, I have a friend who wrote a wonderful curriculum called Writing Tales. This will be used for Sweet-Pea. She wrote the curriculum for 3rd adn 4th graders - perfect timing!!! The books not only look fun, but I know that Sweet-Pea will learn lots from them. She covers everything from reading to spelling to writing (including grammar) with this curriculum. For Lionel, I am undertaking a very intense English/Lit program in hopes of creating a wonderful writer in him. I'm also hoping I learn from it as well. The program is called Excellence in Writing. It's a well known curriculum which has very high reviews. We'll see how it goes. I have to watch the teacher DVD's before I even THINK of teaching it to him...so this year I too have 'home'work.

I will also be using Word Roots and Wordly Wise 10 for Lionel to improve on his Latin and vocabulary skills - in preparation for his SAT's. These books are wonderful and they drill information into you without it being a chore. Lionel enjoys these books and finds them to be an enjoyable way to learn.

FOREIGN LANGUAGE:
A few years ago when we were looking for a good foreign language curriculu
m, we had already heard of Rosetta Stone, but we thought it was too expensive. So, we found something else and we actually grew to love it even more than RS. We use Learnables. It's put out by International Linguistics Corp. Lionel absolutely loves it. He finds that the drawing photos are a lot funnier to look at than real photos. Of course that's not what is important, but it does help. He has learned
useful phrases and sentences, not simply words like you do in most foreign language classes. It's the type of learning an adult could relate to as well as a child, plus it's useful the way it's taught! This past year, he was to continue with the 3rd level, but we spent more time reviewing the 2nd level, so this year we'll finally be able to move on. He will learn the grammatical side of it all, so it will flow and fit together better. By the end of the 3rd book, he should be able to read and understand the language fully without worrying about translation. I took 3 years of Spanish in high school and it got me no where. Lionel is learning so much more at his own pace. He does it all by himself on the computer and in his books. I only grade what he's written, and the answers are all in the back, so it's easy for me. Good thing!
ELECTIVES:
This year we will be learning more about Godly character than anything else! I feel that it's an important part of being a child of God, and learning how to live as He did, is something we all need to strive for! The books we'll be using are Young Person's Character Education Handbook. We'll use this together at the beginning of our school day. Then, Lionel will use 2 other books as well for his personal quiet times. A Young Man After God's Own Heart, and Devotions to Make You Smarter. I haven't decided yet which books I'll be using for Sweet-Pea. Since she'll be learning about Godly Character in her history classes this year, we may not need to use anything else. One possibility is the Beautiful Girlhood book that I've been saving for her. We'll see.

Two other things we'll be using this year are Spelling Power...a wonderful spelling curriculum. I'm a firm believer that the more kids read, the less they need to 'learn' how to spell, but sometimes they simply need that extra push, and this is a great book for just that. We also have been using the Mavis Beacon Typing program, but Lionel got VERY frustrated with it. He'd type things correctly and she'd say he did it wrong and make him do it over etc. So...I looked into other programs and found Typing Instructor. It's WONDERFUL! Both kids have been using it already. Sweet-Pea uses the Kid's version which is very kid-friendly, and Lionel has been starting the grown-up version - still fun and easy to use. I know my kids will learn to type quickly with this program. Both my husband and I are very fast typers, so we're hoping the kids will soon follow suit.

Well, besides violin lessons for Lionel and figure skating lessons for Sweet-Pea, that about covers it. Lionel is in his 6th year of violin and has been doing extremely well. Unfortunately he had no recital this year - it had to be canceled due to a death in his teacher's family, but hopefully nexts year he'll blow them all out of the water after having another year to practice! We are so proud of him for his accomplishments in music. Sweet-Pea is also going to continue with figure skating lessons. She's been taking for almost a year now and has improved quite a bit in that short time. Her first day on the ice was not a pleasant experience (we had tears and sadness), but today, she gets right out there on the ice and does all sorts of things I could never do! We're proud of her as well, and know she'll go far...maybe not to the Olympics, yet far enough to get enjoyment out of it for years to come. =) She also is doing well on the flute. I've been teaching her at home and she's coming along better than I ever expected at such a young age.
That about covers it for our curriculum for this coming year. We have lots of work ahead of us, but we are excited about the changes we've made and the new home in which to enjoy them in!
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